Try to be as diplomatic as possible. Be forewarned, though: Jesse wasn't my first dip into the younger dude pool — we connected after I'd had a handful of casual things with guys four or five years younger than me. Know when you can offer help and when they just want you to listen to them. At the same time, all his talk about that big presentation for work may go right over your head.
Or just have a really good conversation with them over the snack table?
According to our relationship guru, this is a definite pro. Of course, it's hard to tell from these graphs how serious of a relationship these men are looking for.